When we really like someone, every certainty falters, every security becomes doubtful, in fact putting pen to paper, or rather being able to type sexy phrases on a keyboard to send to a man we are infatuated with or being able to speak or write casually to the person for which burn with desire can be very, very difficult, perfine using beautiful phrases, love phrases, romantic phrases or sexy phrases to WhatsApp written by the best writers.
So how to get your dream man aroused by text? The phrases to provoke a man and make him to “fall into our network of seduction ” can be varied and of various nature depending on the character and shyness of each one but one thing is certain: behind a screen, like that of a PC or of a smartphone, the inhibitions fall, we let ourselves go to sexting with much less modesty and we manage to be extremely sensual without having to shoot and send sexy photos or videos that could create problems in the future.
Dirty text messages
Text messages are the perfect way to increase sexual tension with your man. The texts you send out can be quite sexual, but the fact that you and your man are quite apart means that there is a barrier to anything sexual actually happening (barriers are what creates sexual tension). Try sending this message to your man. You may find that some of them are a little bit wild and ‘out there’ while others are a little quieter.
💋Hey, just wanted to let you know that if you’re ever having a hard time, like a really hard time, I’m there for you. I mean, I can give you a hand.. . or something.
💋I had a naughty dream last night, and guess who was in it? I’ll give you a hint. I’m texting him right now.
💋Confession: Sometimes, I can’t help but touch myself when I think about you.
💋What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had about me? I know what mine is about you. . .
💋Sucking on a blow pop right now and wishing it was you.. .
💋Work sucks. . . especially when I’m getting distracted thinking about this hot guy I know and his fantastic body.
💋I’d rather be in bed with you right now.
💋Have you ever had a wet dream with me in it? Be honest. . .
💋You jerked it recently?
💋If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?
💋Just finished pleasuring myself while thinking of you for about an hour. Dang, you’re good.
💋Just got out of the shower and had to text this really sexy guy I know. Didn’t even have time to put clothes on.
💋All I can think about is doing filthy things to you when I get home from work.
💋Just ate dinner, but you wanna come over for dessert? Bring whipped cream and easy-to-remove clothing.
💋I’m listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you! If you were here, we’d probably make some of them reality; )
💋Guess what I’m thinking? OK, I’ll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you naked.
💋What do you want me to do to you tonight?
💋Could really use some help putting this sunscreen on right now. And I’ll need help taking the bikini off later.
💋I know you’re not a wizard, but I think your mouth is pretty magical. I can think of a few places I want it right now. Wait, maybe you ARE a wizard.
💋Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it. . .
💋I’m dying to find out if you are as good in real life as you are in my fantasies.
💋If you could do anything you want to me, what would you do?
💋Lying in bed and bored. Wish you were here to play Simon Says with me; )
💋I want to get naked with you right now.
💋I think it’s time we tried (fill in the blank).
💋I feel like something’s missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.
Flirty text messages to send a guy
The sexting is now a widespread trend among young and old, unfortunately, often without really know what to expect to exchange photos and videos erotic if you choose to enrich the hot chat with something more explicit. Since in recent years we tend to have sex more through screens and wi-fi connection, be careful because the embarrassing situation is around the corner and you have to learn to prevent it rather than try to fix it later.
👄There’s this really cute guy I’ve been thinking about all day long. . . what should I do about it?
👄Just wanted to let you know that I find you very attractive. And hot. And cute. And I want to put my mouth on your mouth.
👄You look great today. How do I know? Because you look good every day.
👄Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You’ll have to wait and find out.
👄Quick question: what do you do when there’s someone you can’t stop fantasizing about, but you have no idea how to talk to them about it?
👄I know someone who might have a crush on you. . .
👄It said it was going to be hot today, so I decided to wear a thong and low-cut top and just stay in bed. What are you up to?
👄Just read that caffeine can boost a woman’s libido. Is that why you keep inviting me to coffee?
👄I would invite you to come over this weekend, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself.
👄My friends are always getting annoyed that I talk about you too much. I can’t help it if you’re the sexiest man that has ever walked the face of the earth, and I think about you constantly.
👄What are you doing for dinner tonight? I thought about getting reservations for my bedroom but wanted to make sure you were available.
👄Tonight, let me do all the work. We’re going to take it so slow, and you’re going to scream.
👄I figured us out today! I think we should just be friends with sexual tension; )
👄Do you know what my favorite thing in the world is? The second word of this text.
👄You’re not very good at pretending you don’t want me.
👄If you were here right now, we definitely would not flirt at all, or hug for a little bit too long, or stare deeply into one another’s eyes, or anything fun like that.
👄Stop thinking about me naked! Sheesh.
👄Happy half birthday! Tonight I’ll do whatever you want me to. . .
👄Was just thinking about seeing you tonight, and, all of a sudden, I was completely undressed.
👄So are we really “hanging out,” or are you secretly trying to date me? Be honest 🙂
👄Good morning! I’m not wearing a bra today. Just thought you should know.
👄I keep having this recurring dream that you’re trying to get me naked. . . weird.
👄I swear I was just watching TV, but then I thought about how sexy you looked at my sister’s wedding, and I had to take a twenty-minute break. . . if you know what I mean.
Freaky Text Messages
You need to be careful when texting your man to tease him. It is important that you are not overly mean to him when sending them in case he has the wrong idea. Here are some good examples of what you should consider sending him to tease him. Keeping it thinking about you and building sexual tension are 2 of the subtlest ways to send dirty text messages to your man. A more direct way is to send him a message simply to arouse him.
😉If you were here right now, I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so. . . rain check?
😉Nothing gets me hotter than thinking about you.
😉I’m naked right now.
😉If you’re not busy later, I was hoping to make passionate love to you. I hope that’s okay with you.
😉My roommates are gone this weekend. We can be as loud as we want tonight, and I want to be loud.
😉When you come over today, I want to start in bed. Just FYI.
😉My hands. My hips. My lips. Your body. Tonight.
😉I love your body.
😉I’m touching myself right now. Wish you were here; )
😉I’ve got something to show you. It’s a surprise, and you’re going to have to undress me to find it.
😉Let me be clear: when I see you later, I’m going to undress you button by button. I’m going to unzip your pants and take them off leg by leg. I’m going to take off your boxers and throw them against the wall. What happens next is all up to you.
😉If you could do anything to me, what would you do?
😉What is your favorite memory of us in bed?
😉Do you have any fantasies?
😉Did you know that you’re incredibly sexy?
😉We would be having so much fun if you were here right now.
😉I want you right now.
😉I’ll invite you over on one condition: you may not keep your hands to yourself. In fact, you need to tell me exactly where you’re going to put them.
😉Remember that crazy thing I told you about that I wanted to try with you. . . I think tonight might be the night.
😉Is it weird that all I can think about is last night? I keep replaying it in my head over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over. . .
😉You should probably clear your schedule for tomorrow morning because I plan on staying up late with you tonight. Very late.
😉Just put on some really crazy underwear. So many snaps! So many straps! You’ll have to help me take it off.
Funny and sexy text messages
The most important rule to keep in mind when sending sexy texts is to do what feels comfortable and natural to you. This is about getting in touch with your sensuality, and sharing that with your partner (which, in turn, will get him very much in touch with his sensuality, and from there the flames of passion will really ignite!)
❣️On the count of three, let’s both say what we’re thinking about. One. . . two. . . I really want to be naked with you right now!
❣️One, two, I want to do you. Three, four, I want you more. Five, six, don’t give me tricks. Seven, eight, don’t be late. Nine, ten, see you then.
❣️Y YOU SO HOT ‘N SEXY. YOU MAKE ME TALK LIKE CAVEWOMAN.
❣️So, I’m outside. I’m not wearing two crucial pieces of clothing, but no one is calling the cops on me. Can you guess what’s missing? Also, it’s not my shoes.
❣️I got eight hours of sleep last night in preparation for the rager that I’m preparing to have with you starting at 8 p.m. this evening.
❣️Did you know that today is National Donut Day? I thought we could celebrate in my bedroom. I’ll bring the sugar.
❣️There’s this guy I really like, but he can’t know. OMG! I can’t believe I sent this to you. Well, now that you know. . . wanna make out?
❣️I’m watching HBO right now and getting a lot of ideas for things we could do together; )
❣️Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk by again?
❣️My dad always told me to make sure that I was treated like a princess, and you know princesses like it hot in bed. So. . .
❣️I was listening to Taylor Swift today and was totally thinking about you. JK. Just wanted an excuse to text you to say I think you’re darn handsome.
❣️101 things I like about you: 1. You’re hot. 2. You’re hot. 3. You’re hot. You get the picture.
❣️You’re so sexy; you take my breath away. But, not too far away.. . like, I don’t die because of it. Still, you’re sexy.
❣️Here’s a riddle for you: What is cute and nice and sometimes hard all over?
❣️If I told you that you had a nice body, would you hold it against me? Seriously though. You’re hot. I’d like to touch your shoulders right now while you take off my pants.
❣️Some people say to-may-to. Some people say to-mah-to. I say I-want-you-right-now-you-sexy-beast.
❣️The top three sexiest things on this earth are your chin, your shoulders, and your. . . I think you know what I’m trying to say here.
❣️On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.
❣️I just wanted to let you know that I’m picturing you naked right now, and dang, you look good.
❣️Your body is so hot it’s making me thirsty. Was that sexy? Because I’m not wearing any clothes. Okay, that has to be sexy now.
❣️I’ve got a B.A. in Communications, so I think I’m pretty much qualified to blow your mind tonight.
❣️Imagine that my bed is a football field. I’m the football, and you’re running for a touchdown. See, I do like sports!
Sexy text messages
These messages only suggest that they are sexy. They might be considered a little more flirty or they might even be lost to someone who is busy or oblivious, but they can also work if you’re testing the waters. If she understands your meaning, she can respond with her dirty text messages or even escalate.
💙Because it’s your birthday today, I’ll let you do anything you want to me.
💙Be honest – I’m the best sex you’ve ever had, aren’t I?
💙I want to push you into a broom closet and fuck you at work.
💙Guess what I’m touching right now? I’ll give you a hint: it’s tight and wet.
💙I want to lick something. Can you guess what?
💙I’m not saying we should have a threesome…but my best friend is really hot…just saying.
💙Are you masturbating? ‘Cause I am.
💙I don’t know what to dress up for you tonight – my boobs or my butt.
💙What’s your favorite dirty thing?
💙Do you want me tonight?
💙I want to go to sleep, but I’m not tired at all. Do you want to come over and do something physical?
💙I’m touching myself in a public bathroom.
💙I don’t know if you know this, but I think about you every night before I go to sleep… with my hands… I’m doing it right now.
💙Would you find it sexy if you found a naked woman in your bed?
💙What’s your favorite thing we ever did together in bed?
💙I know you’re thinking about something filthy. I’m not saying you should stop, but that you should share your thoughts with me.
💙I have a surprise for you…in my pants.
💙Let’s roleplay tonight. I’ll be the sexy teacher and you can be the naughty student that needs a spanking.
💙I want to lick you all over.
💙I want your hands on me. I’ll let you guess where.
💙Be naked when I get home.
💙What turns you on?
💙Tell me next time you jerk off. I want to help you finish.
💙If you could have my mouth anywhere on your body, where would you want it to be?
💙What have you always wanted me to do to you?
💙Do you have any idea how badly I want to feel your body pressed against mine?
💙Do you like sex in the dark? I’m blindfolding you tonight.
Innocent sexy texts for him
What matters most is to make sure your texts match the reality of your situation. This means: don’t send explicit texts if you haven’t even kissed the man yet. I knew a woman who met a guy and thought they hit it off. The guy was sort of interested but did not expect the crazy text she ended up sending him.
🤭What are you doing? I’m texting a really sexy guy right now.
🤭I want to know what you think about before you fall asleep at night.
🤭I had a dream about you last night. I bet you can’t guess what happened?
🤭If you could have one companion on a desert island, who would it be?
🤭I’m so bored. I wish I had some company.
🤭If only you knew what I was thinking right now…
🤭What kind of clothes do you think would look best on me?
🤭Hey, what are you up to? I’m just lying in bed thinking of you.
🤭Stop it! You’re going to make me blush.
🤭I just had a really nice shower, can’t be bothered to get dressed yet!
🤭I’m so bored. I wish you were here to keep me entertained.
🤭Sometimes I feel like I need a man in my life.
🤭Is it just me, or is it getting hot in here?
🤭I’d love to tell you what I was thinking, but we’ll have to get to know each other better first…
Romantic sexy texts for him
These texts are perfect for couples, especially those who want to bring some heat back into the relationship. Read below the best romantic sexy texts and share it with your partner. Make your sex life more pleasant with this texts. It will spice your relationship and will make him want you more.
🧡I want you, darling. All of you.
🧡If tonight was our last night on earth, how would you make it unforgettable?
🧡I miss you like crazy. I want to collapse into your arms and feel you all over me until I explode with pleasure.
🧡To say that I really like it when you touch me would be an understatement. I cannot live without your touch, and every inch of my body craves yours like a drug.
🧡I want to get to know everything there is to know about you, emotionally and physically. There isn’t an inch of your body or soul that I don’t yearn to explore.
🧡I want to lie you down on soft sheets and kiss every inch of your beautiful body until you can’t resist taking me.
🧡I want to become one with you, spiritually and physically. Our bodies and souls entwined in pure passion, now and forever.
🧡I can’t stop thinking about you and what you do for me. The way you make me smile, the way you make me feel safe, and the way you make me scream in ecstasy when you are inside me.
🧡The next time I see you, love, I’m going to make sure that our time apart was worth it. I’m going to do anything that you want me to do. Just tell me what to do, and I am yours.
🧡Next time I see you, I will show you exactly how much I missed you, daring. Words alone can’t express it, so I will have to show you another way.
🧡I wish you were as deep inside me as the thought of you is deep in my heart. I am empty without you; make me full again.
🧡I miss the sweet taste of you.
🧡I want to study you like a map, learn the geography of your body, and go roaming to experience incredible things.
🧡You are gorgeous, my love. Your body sets a fire in my heart and a hunger in my soul. Satiate me and quench my thirst.
🧡I want to feel your lips on my lips and your skin on my skin.
Teasing texts to turn a guy on
Teasing a man is going to drive him nuts. This is good as long as you get together later and don’t just tease him and leave him with a sad case of blue balls. Read below and choose the best teasing text to turn him on.
💖I’m struggling to get my new bra off. I wish you were here to help me.
💖I bet you wish you were here in bed with me instead of at work…
💖My boobs look great in this top; it’s just a shame you’re not here to see them.
💖I’m really horny, and nobody’s here to help me out… I guess I’ll just have to use my vibrator again.
💖I just got out of the shower, and I’m lying on my bed. Would you like to see what you’re missing out on?
💖If you want to see me naked, you’re going to have to give me something in return.
💖I bet you can’t stop thinking about me naked.
💖You’re at work now, aren’t you? I bet this would be a really frustrating time for me to start doing some dirty talk, eh?
💖I just thought you should know that I’m not wearing any panties right now.
💖I’m not a girl that’s easy to please, but I may be willing to let you try.
💖There’s something I really want, but you have to guess what it is.
💖Looking forward to seeing you later. If you play your cards right, you might even get lucky.
💖I learned about some new sex positions today… it’s a shame I don’t have anyone to try them out with.
💖I’m not sure you could make me orgasm, but maybe you can prove me wrong.
💖I’m really bored, do you have any ideas on how I could spend my time?
Visual sexts to make him want you bad
Sending a picture will appeal to his basic instinct, men are visual creatures after all. But don’t do this unless you trust him completely. And I am not saying you have to do this—but the truth is it works. Don’t do this if you aren’t comfortable—obviously—and if you don’t trust the person.
🤗Would you believe me if I told you I’m wearing my sexiest lingerie right now, spread out on my bed and dreaming of you?
🤗Whatever you do right now, DON’T picture me naked riding you like a train. I said, DON’T!
🤗If you came home early to find me naked in bed with another woman, how would you punish me?
🤗What would you do if you walked into the kitchen and saw me completely naked on the table, covered in whipped cream and chocolate?
🤗What would you do if you walked into the bathroom and saw me touching myself in the shower?
🤗I’m sucking on a lollipop right now. Just thought I’d give you that mental image.
🤗Imagine waking up to see me going down on you.
🤗Last night I was thinking about you, and I ended up using my favorite toy. I bet you would have loved to see it.
🤗I don’t mean to brag, but I look so good in this outfit right now. If you could see me, you’d want to tear it off with your teeth.
🤗What would you do if I walked into the room right now and took all of my clothes off?
🤗Imagine walking into the office to see me in a short skirt and no panties, bent over your desk and ready to take some discipline.
🤗My ass would look even better with your handprints on it.
🤗I love to look you in the eyes… especially when I’m kneeling down and looking up at you while undoing your pants.
🤗I know you can’t see me right now, but I just wanted to let you know that I’m playing with my favorite toys.
🤗I bought a new bra today, but I keep falling out of it.
Before you send anything
I can’t leave you with just specific scripts without offering key insight into what mindset makes texts sexy. This will make all the difference when it comes to whether he is turned on or not.
One key to sending a text that turns him on is to be comfortable with what you send. Don’t send a text you think should work because someone said it should. Being comfortable and relaxed is sexy. Being confident is sexy.
Men can be turned off by your vibe if you text with an agenda; in other words, using scripts that sound sexy but make you feel uneasy actually sending won’t turn him on the same way something genuine would.
Remember, not everyone is attracted to the same energy. If you change yourself and try to seem like a different person in order to please a man you might succeed partially in the short term, but this isn’t sustainable in the long term. Your true self will always emerge in the end and men can pick up on more than you think.
If you come from a place of wanting him to feel a certain way about you, and now from a place of authentically showing how you feel, then you’re starting off from a flimsy foundation and it won’t take long for the chemistry and connection to fizzle out.